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♥ Wednesday, October 21, 2009 ♥

♥ i know whose fault ♥

nothing much today.just know tat dajie and dajie fu are quarreling over some matter! both are in faults. jie fu neglect dajie!! slowly neglect become lonliness and somebody happen to appear at this period of her lonliness and due to the lonliness he made to her, she will definetly do something wrong!! den he will think is her fault she betray her but actually is
BOTH FAULTS!!!
den some wrong thinking will pass by if he is not firm enough den he will do wrong decision!! hais..wat a complicated relationship is tis!!! i know trust is difficult to build back once it broken or betray by someone..but 6 years of relationship and those things you and her went through..good and bad, hard and relax..until now you have your own house! do you think it WORTH IT?? it not JUST by saying lost the trust so divorce and things is settle.NONONO..tis thinking is defitnetly wrong!
even when you are moving house, jiejie is the one doing everythings, go ikea her own buy things her own, thinking of how to display those furniture all by her ownself.but when things goes wrong everybody blame her for not doing good enough! her size is small enough but yet she didnt even complain a single things to you before! she hurt herself she also keep quiet didnt say a word!! everybodys patience got limit de.DONT TAKE THINGS FOR GRANTED!! do you ever spare a thought for her??ask yourself!!

for you it never enough! you ask for more!! she give you wat you wan, but who going to give her wat she wan?? it tis being fair to her???think before you answer!!!

*YOU GUYS ALL ARE SELFISH CREATURE!!!*

gege tends to ignore things..tends to forget wat is told!! but when things goes wrong.he point finger at others! is tis the way an adult should behave? is this the way of showing good example to the kids? they are learning wat you have done!!

ya i know tat no guys can endure his wifey fooling around outside de..but no choice tis lonliness is you made and gave to her so admit it..you work, drink and have supper aft work came home late drunk..and as for her she go home after work everyday.faces 2 kids, faces those walls, waiting for you to came home.but everynight you came back drunk or half awake.you should know very clearly tat she cherish those 1 or 2 mins wit you even you got no time for her.even your off day she would just take off even last min off just to accompany you..she even can go down TPY to find you after her wrok just to see you 5secs dont tell me wat she did is not enough!! 6 years of waiting, spending lesser time wit you she didnt even complain much! and 6 years of trust, married all just dissapear like tat in 1 months time!! you ask yourself worth it?? you are a selfish man which you can enjoy outside and she cant..WTH!! 20 century eh not like last time liao eh!!
and also SHE NOT FOOLING OUTSIDE! IT JUST TAT SHE FOUND SOMEONE TAT ACTUALLY WILLING TO GIVE HER THE ATTENTION SHE LONG ASK FOR!! YOU KNOW SHE NEED TIS ATTENTION BUT YOU JUST SIMPLY IGNORE!! HOW COULD YOU DO SUCH THINGS TO HER??? TATS TOO MUCH OF YOU EH!!
jiefu im not saying it your fault entirely but did you ever notice dajie is actually very lonely? for us our mind set is: dajie have a very
HAPPY FAMILY!!
why must things become like tat? you go think carefully la..
relax and think eh!!
i know you wont heed my advise but i still need to say! im not trying to help dajie or you..but just to be reasonable and fair!!! listen or not UP TO YOU!!!
hmms.hope they can sit down and have a good talk..both you are not young anymore you both are adult liao and 2 kids are still very young so do considerated!!
SERIOUSLY i dun pity you both BUT the 2 KIDS!!
how sad they will feel?? did you adults ever think of tat???hais..
♥ MAY GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY ♥
hmms.will update again!!

♥ hope they can overcome ♥

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